Someone asked me the other day:” How does it feel to be 86
years old? My first impulse was to say: “I don’t know I have never been that
age before.” Why did they ask that question? So with that in mind I ask them
why? The person told me that their image
of “old people” was one of feebleness, grumpiness, and set in their ways. They
didn’t think I fit that description even with my white hair and wrinkles.
Well, that got me to thinking…how do I feel at 85? Somehow I
have grown accustomed to my white hair and frankly quite proud of it because I
receive compliments daily on how pretty, thick and shiny it looks. I can’t say
that much for my wrinkles though. I keep telling myself the wrinkles were etched
in my face as I weathered life’s journey seeking my purpose in life. I am true
to myself and fit in my own skin. I apply lotion every night as I did when I
was a youngster.
As a Senior I walk a little slower, but I do not like the fast-paced world around me. As I grow older I have found the value of self-care. In
fact, self-care at any age is valuable. One of my favorite quotes: “If you look
good you feel good. If you feel good you do good.” Older folks have problems
with balance and flexibility. However, the new age seniors keep on moving for a
healthier happier life.
At my vintage age I love good fresh food. That hasn’t
changed. Good fresh vegetables are making a comeback at the supermarkets and
farmer’s roadside stands. What has changed for me is the way I cook meat…no
fried foods. Occasionally, fried chicken does my soul good…and, I must mention
fried catfish.
Inside, I feel as though I am the same as I was as a
youngster. I have learned to think with my mind and feel with my heart. I love
color and nature. I love connecting and sharing with people. I love learning
new things daily and setting goals.
So to answer the question…”What does it feel at the age of 85?
I feel young at heart, can walk my own path at my own pace, and enjoy life.
